Words from the Groom:

Once upon a time, this memorable line was spoken: “Life’s like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re gonna get!” Now, that’s the uncertainty of life.  But with God, I knew that it was different.  For He says, in Jeremiah 29:11, I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.

 

True to His Word, He blessed me with this wonderful woman and life was never quite the same again!  I never quite knew what I was missing until she came along.  For the past few years, I have truly treasured her company as we sailed through this wide ocean called life.

 

Indeed, she complements me in every way… while I can be cheeky and playful, she’s straight-to-business (well, mostly); I’m more careful and deliberate (another excuse for being slow), she’s spontaneous.  It’s almost like we were made for each other!  No, let me rephrase that, we were fearfully and wonderfully made by God for each other.

 

Life is colourful when she’s around. Emily is fond of traveling (as I am). We’ve been doing some traveling and we hope to be adding that to our list in time to come with a European honeymoon down the road.  

 

One thing that I admire in Emily is that she has a big heart.  Always ready to share the love of God, she has participated in numerous mission trips to minister to people near and far.  She has a real ability to touch people's lives.  She has touched my life and helped me become a better man.  God truly gave me a purpose to live for!

 

Those of you who know Emily would know that she's also very capable and conscientious. Certainly, you would have to if you were to pursue your degree part-time while juggling a full-time job! She attained hers from the University of Lincolnshire.  Within this one is also great ambition and determination as a couple of years after completing her studies, she started up a professional executive search firm named Evenstar (www.evenstar.com.my). Come what may, she attributes all her success  to God’s divine provision and blessing for it is by His mighty Hand that all this came to pass.

Why do I love Emily? Or perhaps I should be saying why not? She is tenacious, dedicated, organised, spirited, artistic and loves me with all her heart. Indeed, she completes me.  Deep down in my heart, I believe and know that Emily would make a great wife and a fantastic mother. 

All glory to our Father on high for sending me Christ, and then now Emily!




"Grow old along with me!  The best is yet to be." - Robert Browning








 

Words from the Bride:

As a headhunter, I was tempted to upload Terence’s cv here.  That would be giving it all away too easily.  So let me just introduce to you Terence Chong in my own words: he’s a charming guy with a good heart, a great sense of humour and overflowing with contagious enthusiasm and age-old wisdom.  Before we first met, he told me he was an old man trapped in a young man’s body and I was all a-tingle with delight!

 

Terence Chong was born and bred in PJ.  After pursuing his degree in University of Malaya, he went on to become an IT consultant. Currently, he is a SAP applications consultant attached with an oil and gas multinational.  He advocates service above self – which has grown on him since his Boy Scout days.  He worked in Singapore for 2 years before returning home to KL to find the love of his life and sweep her off her feet.  He enjoys reading sci-fi/fantasy, traveling the seven seas, telling stories, hanging out with his friends and family and living life to the fullest.  The best thing that has happened in his life was accepting Jesus as his personal Lord and Saviour.   

 

We are both similar in our basic temperaments being choleric (self-driven) by nature.  As passionate individuals, we are both committed to personal development and helping others grow whilst reaching out to others in need.  When we are together, we can see the tremendous potential of growth in wanting the best for the other person.  At the opposite pole, our unique personalities do cause us to be loggerheads with each other (indeed, iron sharpens iron).  Being straightforward, I was initially irritated by Terence's highly verbose style.  On the job, he tends to be the PR guy while I’m just happy to get the job done.  While he's the objective thinker, I'm the creative dreamer of possibilities. It’s funny to see and appreciate through God’s eyes why he brought the two of us together.  For we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28). 
 

Life has been great with Terence around - he has encouraged me to be all that I can be; stood by my side through the highest and lowest moments of my life - literally and figuratively.  There is no need for pretense when we are with each other.  This sense of comfort along with much laughter – became the framework upon which our relationship grew.   All relationships require hard work.  No one says it’s going to be easy but we believe, a cord of three strands is not easily broken (Ecclesiastes 4:12) and God is faithful; he will not let us be tempted beyond what we can bear (1 Corinthians 10:13).  After the wedding bells stop ringing, the marriage will begin and I am looking forward to every moment of wedded bliss! 

 

What do I love about Terence?  His generosity.  His extravagant love. His tender compassion.    

 

I once asked Terence, "Will you die for me?" ... He replied tenderly, "No, I will live for you."  And that was all I needed to hear!  



 

At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet Plato